Lies Strong Girls refuse to believe

There are a lot of lies out there. But just because they exist doesn’t mean we have to believe them. From the beginning of time the enemy, Satan, has been lying to women, twisting God’s Words and causing them to doubt Truth. Here are some lies that flow through today’s culture. Lies you don’t have to believe. Lies a Strong Girl stands up to and dares to defy: It doesn’t matter who your friends are. It doesn’t matter how you dress–fashion is more important than modesty. It’s okay to talk trash about people behind their backs. It’s okay to use profanity. Pretty girls/women are more worthy or “I’m not pretty enough.” Skinny girls/women are more worthy or “I’m not skinny enough.” Only girls/women who have a boyfriend are worthy. Your value is based upon how many friends you have on Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram (you get the picture…) It doesn’t matter what music I listen to or movies I watch. It doesn’t matter what I post online. It doesn’t matter what I text. It’s okay to experiment with sex as long as it’s not intercourse. You can hate your parents or other family members and friends and still be a Christian. The most important thing in life is to have fun. Being sexy is more important than being modest. Education isn’t important or “I’m not smart enough.” It doesn’t matter how you earn your money just as long as you have the latest gadget or fad. You’ll never keep a boyfriend unless you have sex with him. I’m stuck and the only way out is to do something against what I believe. I’ll never have a friend I can trust. Through the next few weeks, I’ll be addressing these lies and what our response should be to them. What lies have you been told? Tweet This: A Strong Girl stands up to lies and defies...

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Strong Girl: Malala Yousafzai

Imagine riding the bus home from school and being ambushed by the taliban because you blog about girls getting an education. This is what happened to Malala Yousafzai on a Tuesday, October 9, 2012. The young militants opened fire on the bus, shot Malala in the head and neck, wounded two others, and left them for dead. They thought they’d silenced Malala forever but they were wrong. She survived and has continued to spread her message that a girls’ education benefits everyone. It reduces mortality rates, increases lifetime wage earnings, and strengthens democracy. Malala’s miraculous recovery has taken her from a remote valley in northern Pakistan to the halls of the United Nations in New York. She is the youngest person to have ever been nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize. Malala’s father sounds a lot like my dad. My dad never limited me because I was a girl. He always told me I could accomplish whatever I set my mind to. Malala’s dad owned a school and encouraged his daughter to write and go to school even though he lived in a society that prized sons more than daughters. In July 2013, on her 16th birthday, Malala addressed the United Nations General Assembly: “We must not forget that millions of people are suffering from poverty, injustice and ignorance.  We must not forget that millions of children are out of schools.  We must not forget that our sisters and brothers are waiting for a bright peaceful future.  So let us wage a global struggle against illiteracy, poverty and terrorism and let us pick up our books and pens.  They are our most powerful weapons.” Malala reminds us that some girls face death for going to school. Terrorist groups in Afghanistan and other oppressed areas of the world continue to threaten and attack female students and teachers. Things were improving in some places but with limited presence of the United States in these oppressed areas, girls lives are in danger if they read books and go to school. Clearly, Malala is a strong girl with big dreams. The next time you’re tempted to skip school, think of the price other girls in the world pay for the right to learn. Strong girls are readers. Strong girls are educated. Strong girls, like Malala, have the courage to stand up and not sit down for what is right. How much better [is it] to get wisdom than gold! and to get understanding rather to be chosen than silver! Proverbs 16:16 Tweet this: Strong girls want an education and are afraid of no one....

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Strong Girls are Happy Girls

Do you know what kind of girl is a pretty girl? A happy girl. Are scowly, bitter girls happy or pretty? I don’t think so. Strong girls are happy girls. And one sure way to keep from being happy is to be unforgiving and spiteful. I know it isn’t easy. Our nature without Jesus is to take revenge. To give back whatever hurt us is our first reaction. But a Strong Girl stops before she reacts. She counts to ten. Or she takes a few days to calm down before reacting. And then, maybe she doesn’t react at all. It’s good to remember this: you can’t reason with unreasonable people. If a person has a point of view that isn’t yours, and they aren’t willing to listen because they are angry, hurt or just plain stubborn, then your efforts to change their mind are a waste of time. God knows all about human nature, and He’s given us some very good advice on how to treat people who hurt us: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.The tongue of the wise utters knowledge rightly, but the mouth of the [self-confident] fool pours out folly” (Proverbs 15:1 & 2, AMP). Being spiteful just continues the cycle of hatefulness. As Strong Girls, we’re called to love and grace, not hate and revenge. And that means laying down our own feelings and obeying God. It’s hard at first, but once you do it, you’ll feel more freedom than you can imagine. When you continue to hate and feel bitterness and resentment toward the person who has done you wrong, you give them power to make your life miserable. Why let them have the power to keep you bitter? Bitterness just leads to ugliness. Strong Girls are beautiful. Check out what God has to say here: Be gentle and forbearing with one another and, if one has a difference (a grievance or complaint) against another, readily pardoning each other; even as the Lord has [freely] forgiven you, so must you also [forgive] (Colossians 3:13, AMP). And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32, KJV). Do you know what helps me forgive someone when they’ve been mean to me? I remember the words of Jesus as He hung on the cross: “Father forgive them for they know not what they do (Luke 23:24).” If Jesus can forgive those who crucified Christ in the midst of the excruciating pain on the cross, and have compassion for those who hurt Him, the least I can do for His sacrifice for me, is to imitate Him by being...

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