There are a lot of lies out there. But just because they exist doesn’t mean we have to believe them. From the beginning of time the enemy, Satan, has been lying to women, twisting God’s Words and causing them to doubt Truth.
Here are some lies that flow through today’s culture. Lies you don’t have to believe.
Lies a Strong Girl stands up to and dares to defy:
- It doesn’t matter who your friends are.
- It doesn’t matter how you dress–fashion is more important than modesty.
- It’s okay to talk trash about people behind their backs.
- It’s okay to use profanity.
- Pretty girls/women are more worthy or “I’m not pretty enough.”
- Skinny girls/women are more worthy or “I’m not skinny enough.”
- Only girls/women who have a boyfriend are worthy.
- Your value is based upon how many friends you have on Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram (you get the picture…)
- It doesn’t matter what music I listen to or movies I watch.
- It doesn’t matter what I post online.
- It doesn’t matter what I text.
- It’s okay to experiment with sex as long as it’s not intercourse.
- You can hate your parents or other family members and friends and still be a Christian.
- The most important thing in life is to have fun.
- Being sexy is more important than being modest.
- Education isn’t important or “I’m not smart enough.”
- It doesn’t matter how you earn your money just as long as you have the latest gadget or fad.
- You’ll never keep a boyfriend unless you have sex with him.
- I’m stuck and the only way out is to do something against what I believe.
- I’ll never have a friend I can trust.
Through the next few weeks, I’ll be addressing these lies and what our response should be to them.
What lies have you been told?
I have a writing buddy who loves puns.
He’s super hilarious and you’d never know by his sense of humor that he writes bloody suspense novels.
You can follow his blog here: Tom Threadgill.
Do you like puns? Write some of them for me in the comments below!
And don’t forget to head over to my contest where I’m giving away a $25 Amazon Gift Card!
Enjoy these punny pics! Which one’s your favorite?
It is said that a Persian Grand Vizier named Abdul Nassam Ismael took his entire 117,000 volume library with him everywhere he went on the backs of 400 camels. And get this–this is the best part–he trained the camels to carry the books in alphabetical order. Can you believe it?
Makes me thankful for my kindle.
I can’t imagine having that many books or that many camels! Imagine how much it cost to provide food and shelter not only for the camels but the camel handlers, too. Now that’s what I call an investment in knowledge.
I used to have a thousand books (I’ve never owned a camel but I’m certainly open to the idea) and I gave about half of those away. 117,000 books would fill several large rooms from floor to ceiling. Clearly, this was a man of importance and wealth. Books were a lot more expensive in those days than they are now.
I just ordered about seven cookbooks for free last night via my Kindle unlimited plan. Information is so much more available now it’s almost scary.
One thing’s for certain. There are a lot of camels happy about the invention of the Kindle.
Oh, and hump day, of course.
Leave me a comment and let me know how you transport your books! For me it’s a Kindle and books on CD in a pink tote bag!
I can’t stop thinking about an article I wrote for Examiner a few days ago. As a Special Needs Kids Examiner and a college student working toward a degree in Special Education, I have access to the latest news regarding disabilities.
When I read about Richard Dawkins tweeting that children with Down Syndrome should be aborted, I was incensed. According to him, it is the moral thing to do because they have nothing to contribute.
But that’s the problem, isn’t it?
If one doesn’t believe in a God Who lovingly created humans in His Own Image, then life is nothing more than random cells. Humans are their own gods with the authority to decide who lives and dies.
As I wrote in my new book, Autism, (Due out April 2015), I’ve met spiritual giants while working with people with disabilities. I think we’re going to be very surprised in Heaven when we meet our cognitively disabled brothers and sisters in their perfect bodies. Oh, what great conversations we’ll have then!
The following video chokes me up every single time I watch it. It says it all, I think. This life isn’t about being perfect (whatever that is because perfection is relative). Life is about love. And if you’ve ever known someone with Down Syndrome, you’ve known real, tangible love.
Make your way over to my Facebook page for a chance to win a $25 gift card from Amazon!
I love hearing from you. Do you know anyone with Down Syndrome? I’d love to hear all about them!
I’m hosting a Back to School Giveaway!
No, I’m not launching a new book. I like to treat my readers to unexpected surprises now and then. I also hope to acquire new readership. This is one reason authors hold contests.
Contests are a fun way to help build your on-line platform. I’ve held several and they are tons of fun. My favorite contests were when I was launching my first novel, The Pastor’s Wife Wears Biker Boots. I held a Facebook Party and gave away gifts all throughout the evening to those attending. It’s fun to go back to the transcript of the party and read it! If you want to know how to do it for yourself, feel free to explore the page for yourself.
Online platforms are becoming an important part of the author package writers must present to prospective publishers. The first thing a publishing committee will do when introduced to a new author, or even a published one, is Google the author’s name. Does your name bring up any social media results? Do you have a website? Some publishers won’t publish authors who don’t have a healthy online-presence.
I’m like a lot of authors in that social media isn’t my favorite thing to spend time on. I’d rather not have the distraction. But, I look at it this way–it’s beats digging ditches. And it’s basically painless. Like scrubbing toilets, it must be done, and it won’t kill me.
If you don’t know where to start, here are the basics:
- Build a website. It doesn’t have to be fancy. I used Wix.com when I first started and later I used Weebly.com. There are other free platforms out there. Use the one that is the most user-friendly for you. I didn’t spend money to have someone design one for me until after I had my first novel published.
- Blog. You don’t have to blog every day but it’s common sense that the more you blog the more people will visit. What to blog about? Do a Google search for blog topics and you’ll have more than you’ll ever have time to write. Part of building your platform is projecting what you’re passionate about so write about what you love! I started my first blogs on Blogger, but now I use WordPress because that’s what my web designer used to design my site. There’s a learning curve to WordPress, but I love it. However, if you’re new to finding your way around the Internet, I recommend Blogger. Many successful authors use it and it’s what I use for my interactive eBooks.
- Facebook: I have a “friends” page with about 3300+ followers, an author page with a little over 500, another page for my book and several groups. But really, you don’t have to do all that. You can simply use your friends page if you wish. However, once you reach 5000 followers, you have to stop accepting them and direct them to your author page. So it’s a good idea to go ahead and build your author page. The nice thing about an author page is that you can host your giveaways on it.
- Twitter: for me, this is the hardest platform to build relationships on. But I am learning!
- Pinterest: I have almost 3,000 followers on Pinterest and it was super easy to build that following. Pick a popular subject and start pinning! (To keep numbers in perspective, most best-selling authors have followers in the five digits. I’m still working toward that!)
- Google+: I’m fairly new to Google+ but as more people learn to use it, I’m gaining more experience and developing relationships.
- LinkedIn: I post here every time I have a blog post.
- tumblr: I have about 800 followers on tumblr. I admit that tumblr is one of my guilty pleasures. I enjoy the people I follow there and I actually get the news before it’s published in most other forums. It’s a lot like twitter that way.
- Goodreads: I have about 1300 followers on Goodreads. I’m not very good at checking in there, but while I was promoting my book, I did give books away and I believe it was well worth the expense and time.
Those are the basic platforms/applications that most writers use to build their online presence. Many do not use all of them. Others use more. There are always new apps coming out that people use to connect such as Instagram and Snapchat. Some authors use YouTube and have a channel where they talk about things that are relevant to their platform (I’m toying with this idea myself).
You can also create podcasts to create traffic to your blog and website. You have to choose the best and easiest for you to use in building an audience online. In my opinion, a website, blog and Facebook are the basics to start with. You can branch out from there.
The downside to all this is that it takes a lot of time away from the “real” writing we want to do. I have my twitter and tumblr hooked together so that when I post on tumblr it posts on twitter. It helps me build relationships on tumblr, but it doesn’t help much on twitter because to build relationships on twitter you need to interact and respond to other people’s posts.
When the local college has students wanting internships, I use college students to add interesting tweets to my buffer app account. This app will schedule pre-created tweets throughout the day. Again, the downside, is having the time to respond to anyone who replies to your tweets. It keeps your feed active, but does it build relationships? Not likely.
As you can see, I’m not yet in the mega-following status and I’m still learning. A platform isn’t built in a day, or week or month. It takes time to build relationships, and that’s what successful authors do. No one likes to be bombarded with “buy my book” all the time. People want to connect with people, not products. If you build relationships, you’ll gain a faithful tribe. And making friends, loving one another and caring about others is what life’s all about in the first place.
Don’t forget to go to my website and enter the giveaway! Today’s the last day! Have fun!
Leave me a message below and let me know how you’re building your online platform!
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In honor of back to school, I’m giving away a $25 Amazon gift card!
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Contest ends September 1. I’ll post the winner on September 2.
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I had little doubt when I ordered The Blessing of Friendship to review for BookLook that I would fall in love with it. I’ve been an Engelbreit fan for at least twenty years. I especially love her “Queen of Everything” theme and own several products from that line.
The Blessings of Friendship, is a cheerful and touching treasury of poetry, Bible verses, and quotes that celebrate the delightful charms of friendship. Coupled with Engelbreit’s enchanting illustrations, they teach children what it means to be a friend: helpful, encouraging, listening, sharing and loving one another.
This book made me smile the minute I set my eyes on it. It’s absolutely beautiful, cover to cover. I want to frame every page! There’s nothing I don’t like about this book. It would make a great gift from a friend to a friend, and to children of all ages.
I give this book 5 out of 5 stars. I have no doubt that anyone who loves beautifully illustrated children’s books, will love it, too.
I’m waxing nostalgic about the twins going back to school on Tuesday.
I resent that classes start so early in the summer. Seems to me they should take less days off during the year for teacher in-services. Why can’t they do those before the school year begins? Why cut a kid’s summer short?
One of the reasons this is an “ugh” for me, is that I’ve finally gotten the twins into a good routine this summer. And now, we have to learn a new one.
It’s not that easy with kids with autism. Change in routine is very difficult for them and for their whole family. So now, instead of chores in the mornings, they’ll have chores and homework in the hours after school, and it’s super difficult getting them to cooperate because they’ve held it together all day at school. There’s just nothing left for them to give when they get home.
But laundry still has to be done, and messes cleaned up and toilets scrubbed. Then there’s the hygiene. Basic stuff for regular folks. I know at the end of the day the idea of doing dishes is a struggle for me. And it’s so much more difficult for the boys.
While you’re reading this, we’re most likely at the local super center finishing up our school supply shopping. And getting new shoes. Tomorrow, the boys go to their first day back to school. And I’m sad. I enjoy having them here. I enjoy the lazy summer days and watching them help their Dad in the yard. It feels like school steals all that away.
Which is why I enjoyed homeschooling my kids so much. I loved having them around. I loved the freedom of being able to jump in the van and go to a museum or library or the forest. But I know that the twins are attending classes they truly need now to be well-equipped to be more independent.
It’s not about me. It’s about them and their future. And I’m just whining.
I’ll get over it. I always do. We’ll hit our stride somehow and find a new way to cope with new routines.